Lately I've noticed a lot more new moms are planning their own baby showers and brides-to-be are planning their own bridal showers. Some find it tacky (mostly those 40 and up) and some don't even flinch (mostly those 30 and under). Could this be the new trend? Is it fine for women of the millenium to plan their own showers? Have we gotten past the idea that it is tacky or is it still taboo?I'd love your thoughts.